The Jumping Frog
How
to Do
- The
woman lies upright with her back supported on a slant, her legs are drawn up toward her chest and her knees raised
high, while the man can fit comfortably slightly under her bum as close to the partner as possible, from there he can enter deep into her vagina with his penis.
- The
man can support
alot of his weight on the front part of his legs and knees while penetrating the partner very deep and closely
- The
woman can wrap her legs around her partner at various heights: resting on his outer thigh, around his buttocks or back, or over his shoulders.
The
woman can use her hands freely to caress the man or stimulate her
clitoris as the man has limited use of his hands, but it is a good
position for being able to see each other and for kissing and for caressing (Some
women do not like the deep penetration of this position)
The missionary positions are the most popular sex positions for many reasons. Many women consider it the most romantic position, almost certainly because the couple are always face to face. Every expression can be noticed, they are free to kiss, and each partner can see that they are being loved – something that is not possible in some other positions, such as rear-entry ones.
The missionary positions, being such a passive ones for women, absolves her of the responsibility of making anything much happen. Some women can relax and enjoy lovemaking more if they do not take a dominant, active role.
Man-on-top sex positions aren't always passive for the woman. With many variations on the 'missionary' position, the woman can control the depth of penetration and set the pace for intercourse. Closely allied to such feelings in the woman are parallel but opposite feelings in the man. Some men enjoy ‘dominating’ their partner during intercourse and tend most to enjoy such positions as encourage this – although from time to time most men enjoy other sex positions in which their partner takes the lead and control.
Many women experience great pleasure from being dominated during intercourse. Some women enjoy sex particularly if the man is in control and makes everything happen. Missionary position sex is ideal for this. The man, being on top, controls the thrusting and can pin the woman down to the bed and take her roughly and at his pace.
Being ‘taken’ like this can be highly exciting to some women. For the woman who is at all guilty about sexual needs and appetites, this position leaves her free of guilt about sex, because she can think of herself as being overpowered by a much stronger man.
Free to kiss
Because the couple’s faces are close together, they can easily kiss – not just lips but all over each other’s face breasts and neck. This helps create a loving and caring atmosphere. For the woman who is aroused by nipple stimulation, the man on top position allows the man to kiss and stroke her nipples.
*Use massage oil for extra sensuality. Oil each other, avoiding the pelvis if using condoms, then slip-slide away
More than just romantic
Because it is a romantic yet fairly unadventurous sex position, it is a particularly good one when having sex with a new partner. While you are still learning about one another, it makes sense to go for a position that is non-threatening and loving.
The missionary positions lay neither partner open to strangeness, anxiety and unfamiliarity. The woman’s hands are free to caress the man. This could be especially valuable – showing him that he is loved and wanted in the new relationship.
*With her feet on her partner's buttocks, the woman can pull the man in to grind against her with his pubic bone.
Because the man has control of the thrusting he can control his speed to orgasm. This is good news for the individual who fears losing control of ejaculation. A ‘trigger-happy’ man can thus stop when he feels ejaculation approaching, and a man who needs a great deal of thrusting to maintain his erection will also benefit.
Advantages of the Jumping Frog position
- Both partners can see each other and make eye contact, thereby receiving feedback from their facial expressions, breathing, and vocalizations
- Coitus can be combined with erotic kissing on the mouth, including such variants as the "French kiss".
- Penetration is relatively deep
- The man's groin can directly or indirectly stimulate the clitoris, depending on how the act is performed
- A relatively quick male orgasm can be achieved if so desired; conversely, the greater control afforded the man enables him to delay his orgasm and thereby prolong the copulatory act
- The woman may enjoy the sensation of submission to the male and the freedom to caress him as she chooses
- The woman is able to either hasten or delay both her orgasm and that of her partner through voluntary, rhythmic flexation and relaxation of the pubococcygeus muscles surrounding her vagina
- Very little suppleness or flexibility is required of either partner. Both are able to remain relatively relaxed and avoid fatigue
- The intimacy of full-body contact affords a heightened sensual and emotional experience for both the male and female
Disadvantages of the Jumping Frog position
- It can be difficult for the penetrating partner to manually stimulate the clitoris
- This position sometimes produces a quick male orgasm (premature ejaculation)
- Some women do not enjoy the possibly submissive sensation of being under their partner
References: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Main_Page | http://www.loversguide.com
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