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The Butterfly

If you are looking for the ultimate sexual position, look no further. This is the one that is damn near guaranteed to get the woman off every time.

How to Do

This is not exactly the easiest position in the world to perform. It is not the most difficult that there is, but it is definitely up there.

• The position is done by having the woman lie on her back, she then lifts her legs and rest her feet on his shoulders. Her hips and back are then elevated by the males arms as he lifts her vagina so that it lines up with his penis.
  
  
• It is good to have about a foot distance between the male's penis and the platform the woman is lying on. This can be found on a bed for example. The male stands off the bed while he lifts the woman lying on it up to his height.
  
  
• When the woman is at the right height, just her upper back and head should be resting on the bed still. The male then slides into her and thrusts. Because of the angles involved, it is unlikely that the male will manage to get very deep at all. This is a good thing, the result is that his thrusting power is aimed directly at the G-Spot.

What does he do?

It is the male's job to do most of the work in this position. Begin by lifting your partner off the bed or whatever surface is being used. Grab her by the hips or under her buttocks in order to do this better. Position her vagina so that it is about the same height as your penis.

Place the penis at the outside of the vagina and then slowly begin thrusting forward. This will cause the penis to push against the top wall of the vagina, thus stimulating the G-Spot. The male may also wish to vary his thrusting pattern and depth in this position. The man may want to start by doing 3-4 shallow thrusts followed by one deep full thrust and work his way towards many deep thrusts followed by 1-2 shallow ones.

What does she do?

There isn't much for the woman to actually do while in this position. The main thing she should do is to pay attention to where her legs and feet are. A very common place for them while in this position is on top of the male's shoulders or just coming off the male's mid-section. Try to support your own body in whatever way possible in order to take some of the stress off your partner.

Why is this position so good?

It is all a matter of angles. Because of the angle of the male's penis and the woman's body, the male is able to stimulate the woman's g-spot very well with his penis during sex. It does not take too much of this stimulation to get the woman leaving finger nail marks down the males arms.

Because the man has control of the thrusting he can control his speed to orgasm. This is good news for the individual who fears losing control of ejaculation. A ‘trigger-happy’ man can thus stop when he feels ejaculation approaching, and a man who needs a great deal of thrusting to maintain his erection will also benefit.

*Use massage oil for extra sensuality. Oil each other, avoiding the pelvis if using condoms, then slip-slide away.

Best for babies!

The man-on-top sex positions are very good for couples who are trying to have a baby, because penetration can be very deep. If the woman holds on to her legs behind her knees and draws her thighs right back, sperm can be deposited deep in the vagina – at the neck of the womb. This provided the best chance of conception occurring.

If the woman stays lying down after sex, with a pillow under her hips, the semen stands the best possible chance of entering her cervix, and the sperm will then be able to fertilize an egg.

Advantages of the Butterfly position

• When you're in the mood for quality, because-you're-worth-it climaxing, bust out our brand-new Butterfly - named for unequaled ecstasy without high-energy commitment

• Both partners can see each other and make eye contact, thereby receiving feedback from their facial expressions, breathing, and vocalizations
  
  
• The pelvic tilt gives his penis better access to your G-spot and builds in more friction for both of you
  
  
• This position can be intensely romantic, when done very slowly, it's said to be completely dreamlike..the result? An orgasm that takes fantasy-worthy flight
  
  
• A relatively quick male orgasm can be achieved if so desired; conversely, the greater control afforded the man enables him to delay his orgasm and thereby prolong the copulatory act
  
  
• The woman may enjoy the sensation of submission to the male and the freedom to caress him as she chooses
  
  
• The woman is able to either hasten or delay both her orgasm and that of her partner through voluntary, rhythmic flexation and relaxation of the pubococcygeus muscles surrounding her vagina
  
  
• Excellent visual stimulation for the man
  
  
• Fairly deep penetration
  
  
• Very relaxing for the woman
  
  

Disadvantages of the Butterfly position

• It can be difficult for partners to manually stimulate the clitoris
  
  
• This position sometimes produces a quick male orgasm (premature ejaculation)
  
  
• Some women do not enjoy the possibly submissive sensation of being under their partner
  
  

References: http://www.wikiafterdark.com | http://www.loversguide.com | http://www.answers.com


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