Sex Position - Fusion

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Fusion

How to Do

In the Fusion sex position:

The woman lies on top of the man, facing her partner and straddling him. Once he's penetrated her, she leans back on to her arms.
It generally takes longer for a man to come in this position so it's a great one to try if you want to take your time.
For deeper penetration, the man should arch his pelvis towards his partner, although this position is already pretty deep.
The woman can easily caress her partner's testicles in this position. She's in control and can set the speed and depth of penetration.
The angle of the vagina when she leans back on her arms makes this position great for G-spot stimulation. Either partner can easily stimulate the clitoris while you make love.

For the woman who likes to take the initiative and the man who enjoys watching his partner as they make love, woman-on-top sex positions cannot be beaten. And with deep penetration as an added bonus, they can increase the sexual pleasure for both partners in any loving relationship by adding new sensations to your lovemaking.

Almost all men say that, on some occasions at least, they like to have the initiative taken away from them and, just as some women feel flattered to be taken with great ardour, so it is also true that many men like to be 'taken' by their female partner in this way.

Increasing arousal

Before penetration, it can be fun for both if the woman teases a little. She can hold her lover's penis firmly, masturbating him while touching her vagina with the tip of it. She can also use it to stimulate her clitoris and her vaginal lips before any actual penetration. Play this game until neither of you can, nor wants to, hold back any longer.

Control is one of the first reasons women give when stating a preference for the woman-on-top sex positions. Once the penis enters the vagina, the woman is in control of it in a way she cannot ever be when being penetrated in any other way.

Angle and rhythm

Once in position, the woman can change the angle and rhythm of penetration as she pleases, by rocking backwards and forwards and from side to side, swiveling her pelvis or moving up and down.

She can also lean forward to kiss her lover, sit up while he runs his hands over her body, reach to stroke his scrotum or anus, or lean back to let his penis push against her G-spot on the front wall of her vagina.

But most importantly she can alter the depth of penetration to suit herself and her lover.

Gentle movements

Many women find that if they are in a position where they are leaning backwards, they can only move their hips very slightly. But small, rhythmic movements of the pelvis can give you both entirely different sensations. The temptation to continue in a thrusting motion is a strong one, but slow, gentle movements in this position can prolong the lovemaking and lead to a deeply satisfying climax for both.

*Most men love the rich curves of a woman's body and this is one way to appreciate them to the full, while also watching their penis going into their lover.

Watching and listening

As always when making love, take care to watch or listen to your lover's reactions. This way you will quickly find out what pleases each of you and how you can best work to increase each other's pleasure, arousal and satisfaction. If her lover is uncircumcised, she can gently push back his foreskin as far as it will go and then move up and down on the exposed head of his penis. This is easier from a squatting position, which is tiring to hold but it gives a man intense pleasure and can make him come very quickly. Penetration is obviously quite shallow, so this may be less exciting for the couple.

For deep penetration, another idea is for her to take him fully inside her and then pulse her fingertips fast against the base of his penis, with the heel of her hand resting on her lower stomach. If she positions her fingers so that they vibrate her clitoris at the same time, it can be intensely exciting for both.

In many lovemaking positions, the woman's movements are restricted. Most woman-on-top positions, however, offer her more freedom to move as she pleases. She can even change positions mid-way through the lovemaking, still keeping her partner's penis inside her.

*Making love with the woman on top allows you to use your imagination in a variety of sex positions. You can also enjoy some really erotic foreplay.

Making it last

If the man does not want to come too quickly, woman-on-top sex positions are good for practicing delayed ejaculation - especially useful for men who sometimes suffer from premature ejaculation.

A man's erection and ejaculation reflexes are slowed down when he is on his back and there is time to use the special 'squeeze technique' of preventing ejaculation. If he feels he is coming too soon, he can signal to the woman who can take his penis out and squeeze the top of the glands firmly between her fingers until he begins to lose his erection. She can then re-arouse him and they can continue making love.

Pregnancy

Woman-on-top sex positions are ideal during pregnancy. There is no pressure on the woman's stomach and it is easy for her to make sure that the depth and the speed of penetration are comfortable. The man can see and touch her new, full shape, and this kind of gentle, tender lovemaking can be highly arousing for both partners. In this way, intercourse can be possible almost entirely throughout the pregnancy.

Woman-on-top sex positions are also useful if the man is recovering from a serious illness or surgery, or the woman has recently given birth, because the woman can relax, knowing that her partner will not overdo things.

It is also important to remember that everyone is built differently. Some women's genitals are set very much more forward than others’. This brings the penis into contact with the clitoris in a different way and means that deep penetration for one couple will be shallow for another. As with all sex positions, experimentation is the key, and with a little imagination you will soon find out what suits you both.

Advantages of Woman on Top positions

Allows for much greater penetration mobility, and thus increases the pleasure.
Although it tends to tire the arms of the receiver, the position is a blast while their muscles are still fresh.

Both partners can see one another, and in particular the man can view and caress the woman's breasts while they are in a more natural position.
Often the man can delay his orgasm longer in this position.
The position is far less tiring for the man as he does not have to support his weight while also being physically active.
This variation eases the strain of motion upon the woman's knees, which may be an advantage for some women.
The woman can control the depth, intensity, and angle of penetration, and enjoy the dominant feeling of being in control.
The man can enjoy receiving pleasure while relaxing.
The woman can easily stimulate her clitoris with her hand (if in the upright version).
If sitting upright, the woman can to stimulate the man's testicles.
The man can caress the woman's buttocks and stimulate the anus.
Unlike in the missionary position, in this position the woman has the active role while the man has the passive role.

Disadvantages of Woman on Top positions

For people who like a lot of thrusting penetration, this position can be unsatisfying.
As well, for the time that the woman is actually sitting up, there is less body to body contact than other positions (it’s not very cuddly, if that’s what you are looking for).
Can become very tiring on the woman's arms.

References: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Missionary_position | http://www.loversguide.com | http://www.sexinfo101.com

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