Head to Toe
The woman is very much in control in this position.
How
to Do
In the Head to Toe sex position:
- The man lies on his back with his legs spread and his penis inside the woman, to make this work, the partner on bottom will need to arch his pelvic area (back flat against the ground).
- The woman lies on her back with her legs spread across her partner's and her toes pointing to his head and her head away from him.
Again, the difference between this position and the missionary position is that this time, the partners face the opposite direction of each other. Each person has a view of the other person's feet. Make sure your feet smell good!
The angle of entry is different and often will require verbal communication. To make this work, communication between the two of you will need to be stellar. The angle of entry is very different than what most couples are used to. I strongly suggest that the woman help guide the penis/dildo with her hand into the correct position. This is a great position for couples who want to try something new, and are prepared to make fools of themselves and be comfortable laughing about how hard this position makes lovemaking.
*While each of you are now facing each other's clean toes, why not have a nibble? Some people love a nibble. Sucking toes and massaging the insoles adds an extra stimulation which can be very arousing.
For the woman who likes to take the initiative and the man who enjoys watching his partner as they make love, woman-on-top sex positions cannot be beaten. And with deep penetration as an added bonus, they can increase the sexual pleasure for both partners in any loving relationship by adding new sensations to your lovemaking.
Almost all men say that, on some occasions at least, they like to have the initiative taken away from them and, just as some women feel flattered to be taken with great ardour, so it is also true that many men like to be 'taken' by their female partner in this way.
Watching and listening
As always when making love, take care to watch or listen to your lover's reactions. This way you will quickly find out what pleases each of you and how you can best work to increase each other's pleasure, arousal and satisfaction. If her lover is uncircumcised, she can gently push back his foreskin as far as it will go and then move up and down on the exposed head of his penis.
In many lovemaking positions, the woman's movements are restricted. Most woman-on-top positions, however, offer her more freedom to move as she pleases. She can even change positions mid-way through the lovemaking, still keeping her partner's penis inside her.
*Making love with the woman on top allows you to use your imagination in a variety of sex positions. You can also enjoy some really erotic foreplay.
Making it last
If the man does not want to come too quickly, woman-on-top sex positions are good for practicing delayed ejaculation - especially useful for men who sometimes suffer from premature ejaculation.
A man's erection and ejaculation reflexes are slowed down when he is on his back and there is time to use the special 'squeeze technique' of preventing ejaculation. If he feels he is coming too soon, he can signal to the woman who can take his penis out and squeeze the top of the glands firmly between her fingers until he begins to lose his erection. She can then re-arouse him and they can continue making love.
It is also important to remember that everyone is built differently. Some women's genitals are set very much more forward than others’. This brings the penis into contact with the clitoris in a different way and means that deep penetration for one couple will be shallow for another. As with all sex positions, experimentation is the key, and with a little imagination you will soon find out what suits you both.
Advantages of the Head to Toe position
- Penetration is quite deep, and the woman can control the depth and intensity of penetration.
- Each person has a view of the other person's feet. Sucking toes and massaging the insoles adds an extra stimulation which can be very arousing.
- Clitoral pressure may not be very intense for some women, but can be provided by hand, or by the man periodically semi-withdrawing and manipulating his penis against the woman's clitoris, or by other means.
- The woman is very much in control in this position.
- Often the man can delay his orgasm longer in this position.
- The position is far less tiring for the man as he does not have to support his weight while also being physically active.
- The woman can control the depth, intensity, and angle of penetration, and enjoy the dominant feeling of being in control.
- The woman can easily stimulate her clitoris with her hand.
- The man can stimulate the woman's clitoris with his hand, though some find the thumb to be more comfortable.
- Unlike in the missionary position, in this position the woman has the active role while the man has the passive role.
- Sex toys that are meant to go around the penis and provide clitoral stimulation for the woman are often most effective with this position.
- This is a great position for couples who want to try something new, and are prepared to make fools of themselves and be comfortable laughing about how hard this position makes lovemaking.
Disadvantages of the Head to Toe position
- For people who like a lot of thrusting penetration, this position can be unsatisfying.
- The angle of entry is very different than what most couples are used to and often will require verbal communication.
- As well, for the time that the woman is actually sitting up, there is less body to body contact than other positions (it’s not very cuddly, if that’s what you are looking for).
References: http://www.sextherapyinphiladelphia.com | http://www.loversguide.com
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