The Acrobat
This is a very intimate love making position.
How
to Do
In the Acrocat sex position:
- The easiest way to get into the acrobat position is to have the giver lie down on their back.
- The partner then lies down on her back on top of the male. With both partners lying on top of one another, the male can enter from beneath her in a upward motion.
When the woman sits on top of her man and then leans backward as far as is comfortable, they are both likely to get intense vaginal and penile stimulation. This is not something that all men will find comfortable, especially a man whose erection is hard and upright and normally stands against his stomach, for his penis may be bent uncomfortably. Even so, sex in this position can be very stimulating one for the woman, because it allows her to ride his penis while her G-spot is stimulated.
In a variant of the acrobat position, the giver lies on a bed with their partner lying on top in line with them. This position offers incredible access to the receiver’s chest and neck while offering a great penetration angle for g-spot or prostate gland stimulation.
*Since the receiver doesn’t have very much leverage, movement is mainly the giver’s responsibility and also requires the giver to take over stroking duties.
For the woman who likes to take the initiative and the man who enjoys watching his partner as they make love, a woman-on-top sex position like this cannot be beaten. They can increase the sexual pleasure for both partners in any loving relationship by adding new sensations to your lovemaking.
Almost all men say that, on some occasions at least, they like to have the initiative taken away from them and, just as some women feel flattered to be taken with great ardour, so it is also true that many men like to be 'taken' by their female partner in this way.
Increasing arousal
Before penetration, it can be fun for both if the woman teases a little. She can hold her lover's penis firmly, masturbating him while touching her vagina with the tip of it. She can also use it to stimulate her clitoris and her vaginal lips before any actual penetration. Play this game until neither of you can, nor wants to, hold back any longer.
Control is one of the first reasons women give when stating a preference for the woman-on-top sex positions. Once the penis enters the vagina, the woman is in control of it in a way she cannot ever be when being penetrated in any other way.
Gentle movements
Many women find that if they are in a position where they are leaning backwards, they can only move their hips very slightly. But small, rhythmic movements of the pelvis can give you both entirely different sensations. The temptation to continue in a thrusting motion is a strong one, but slow, gentle movements in this position can prolong the lovemaking and lead to a deeply satisfying climax for both.
It can be easy for the man's penis to slip out of this position. However, if she keeps her movements small and shallow, or simply presses herself firmly down on his penis and then circles her hips around the base, there should not be a problem.
Watching and listening
As always when making love, take care to watch or listen to your lover's reactions. This way you will quickly find out what pleases each of you and how you can best work to increase each other's pleasure, arousal and satisfaction.
In many lovemaking positions, the woman's movements are restricted. She can even change positions mid-way through the lovemaking, still keeping her partner's penis inside her.
*Making love with the woman on top allows you to use your imagination in a variety of sex positions. You can also enjoy some really erotic foreplay.
Making it last
If the man does not want to come too quickly, woman-on-top sex positions are good for practicing delayed ejaculation - especially useful for men who sometimes suffer from premature ejaculation.
A man's erection and ejaculation reflexes are slowed down when he is on his back and there is time to use the special 'squeeze technique' of preventing ejaculation. If he feels he is coming too soon, he can signal to the woman who can take his penis out and squeeze the top of the glands firmly between her fingers until he begins to lose his erection. She can then re-arouse him and they can continue making love.
Pregnancy
Woman-on-top sex positions are ideal during pregnancy. There is no pressure on the woman's stomach and it is easy for her to make sure that the depth and the speed of penetration are comfortable. This kind of gentle, tender lovemaking can be highly arousing for both partners. In this way, intercourse can be possible almost entirely throughout the pregnancy.
Woman-on-top sex positions are also useful if the man is recovering from a serious illness or surgery, or the woman has recently given birth, because the woman can relax, knowing that her partner will not overdo things.
It is also important to remember that everyone is built differently. Some women's genitals are set very much more forward than others’. This brings the penis into contact with the clitoris in a different way and means that deep penetration for one couple will be shallow for another. As with all sex positions, experimentation is the key, and with a little imagination you will soon find out what suits you both
Advantages of the Acrobat position
- Clitoral pressure may not be very intense for some women, but can be provided by hand.....The giver has great access to their partner’s chest and genitals, so make sure to keep them hands busy!
- The position is far less tiring for the man as he does not have to support his weight while also being physically active.
- The woman can control the depth, intensity, and angle of penetration, and enjoy the dominant feeling of being in control.
- The man can enjoy receiving pleasure while relaxing.
- The woman can easily stimulate her clitoris with her hand.
Disadvantages of the Acrobat position
- For people who like a lot of thrusting penetration, this position can be unsatisfying.
- It can be easy for the man's penis to slip out of this position
- If the woman's weight is more than that of her partners then this position may become uncomfortable for her partner.
References: http://www.loversguide.com | http://www.sexinfo101.com | http://www.sex-techniques-and-positions.com
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