The
Armchair
How
to Do
In the Armchair sex position:
- The man sits up with his legs apart and stretched out straight in front of him.
- Their partner then sits on top of them, facing him with her legs rested upon his shoulders.
- In this position arms are required for support and unfortunately, it takes quite a bit of strength on behalf of the receiver to perform this position, so you may need to train before you can enjoy all of its glory.
One of the more creative positions, the armchair is hours of fun once you can get the rhythm down.
For the woman who likes to take the initiative and the man who enjoys watching his partner as they make love, woman-on-top sex positions cannot be beaten. And with deep penetration as an added bonus, they can increase the sexual pleasure for both partners in any loving relationship by adding new sensations to your lovemaking.
Almost all men say that, on some occasions at least, they like to have the initiative taken away from them and, just as some women feel flattered to be taken with great ardour, so it is also true that many men like to be 'taken' by their female partner in this way.
Increasing arousal
Before penetration, it can be fun for both if the woman teases a little. She can hold her lover's penis firmly, masturbating him while touching her vagina with the tip of it. She can also use it to stimulate her clitoris and her vaginal lips before any actual penetration. Play this game until neither of you can, nor wants to, hold back any longer.
Control is one of the first reasons women give when stating a preference for the woman-on-top sex positions. Once the penis enters the vagina, the woman is in control of it in a way she cannot ever be when being penetrated in any other way.
Angle and rhythm
Once in position, the woman can change the angle and rhythm of penetration as she pleases, by rocking backwards and forwards and from side to side, swiveling her pelvis or moving up and down. Most importantly with this position, the woman can alter the depth of penetration to suit herself and her lover.
Gentle movements
Many women find that if they are in a position where they are leaning backwards, they can only move their hips very slightly. But small, rhythmic movements of the pelvis can give you both entirely different sensations. The temptation to continue in a thrusting motion is a strong one, but slow, gentle movements in this position can prolong the lovemaking and lead to a deeply satisfying climax for both.
Watching and listening
As always when making love, take care to watch or listen to your lover's reactions. This way you will quickly find out what pleases each of you and how you can best work to increase each other's pleasure, arousal and satisfaction.
In many lovemaking positions, the woman's movements are restricted. Most woman-on-top positions, however, offer her more freedom to move as she pleases. She can even change positions mid-way through the lovemaking, still keeping her partner's penis inside her.
*Making love with the woman on top allows you to use your imagination in a variety of sex positions. You can also enjoy some really erotic foreplay.
Making it last
If the man does not want to come too quickly, woman-on-top sex positions are good for practicing delayed ejaculation - especially useful for men who sometimes suffer from premature ejaculation.
A man's erection and ejaculation reflexes are slowed down when he is on his back and there is time to use the special 'squeeze technique' of preventing ejaculation.
It is also important to remember that everyone is built differently. Some women's genitals are set very much more forward than others’. This brings the penis into contact with the clitoris in a different way and means that deep penetration for one couple will be shallow for another. As with all sex positions, experimentation is the key, and with a little imagination you will soon find out what suits you both.
Advantages of the Armchair position
- One of the more creative positions, the armchair is hours of fun once you can get the rhythm down.
- Penetration is quite deep, and the woman can control the depth and intensity of penetration.
- Clitoral pressure may not be very intense for some women, but can be provided by hand.
- Both partners can see one another, and in particular the man can view the curves and beauty of his partner.
- The position is far less tiring for the man as he does not have to support his weight while also being physically active.
- The woman may take a relatively static position, so that she does not tire (by supporting her upper body with her extended arms with her torso almost horizontal), while the man, not having to support his weight can be quite active without fatigue.
- This variation eases the strain of motion upon the woman's knees, which may be an advantage for some women.
- The woman can control the depth, intensity, and angle of penetration, and enjoy the dominant feeling of being in control.
- The man can enjoy receiving pleasure while relaxing.
- The man can stimulate the woman's clitoris with his hand, though some find the thumb to be more comfortable.
- The man can caress the woman's buttocks and stimulate the anus.
- Unlike in the missionary position, in this position the woman has the active role while the man has the passive role.
Disadvantages of the Armchair position
- For people who like a lot of thrusting penetration, this position can be unsatisfying.
- Unfortunately, it takes quite a bit of strength on behalf of the receiver to perform this position, so you may need to train before you can enjoy all of its glory.
References: http://www.loversguide.com | http://www.sexinfo101.com
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