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First Time Lovers

It is very important that the first time someone has sex everything should be done to make it a satisfying and exciting experience. Plan ahead regarding contraception, safe sex and any other vital facts you need to know, so you will not feel anxious afterwards about getting her pregnant or catching an STD.

You and your partner should have sex when you are both ready and comfortable with the idea. Allow lots of time to have sex the first time, like a whole weekend.

What To Do
  • Eat light, and avoid eating a heavy meal as this can make you sleepy.
  • Avoid drinking too much alcohol

Alcohol helps if you are inhibited but it can cause a male to lose an erection or have difficulty achieving an erection.


It is important that you make love in a place that is very comfortable to you both. It is not really suitable for exquisite lovemaking to use a car.

Sex in the outdoors has:

  • less privacy
  • bugs
  • sand
  • pine needles, etc.

You really need a place that has:

  • a bed (still the best thing to make love in)
  • heat
  • comfort
  • space
  • a bathroom

You might like to bring along:

  • some form of contraception, (condoms, etc.)
  • favorite pillow
  • favorite bathrobe

Taking a shower together before sex is a wonderful, intimate experience and can be very arousing. Get to know each other’s bodies. Take your time. That’s what lovemaking is about.

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