The biggest anxiety with men is that they will not be able to get an erection. Nervousness and lack of confidence can cause all sorts of problems. Take a deep breath. Do something else for a while with your hands, your lips and your tongue. Try to forget about your anxiety, and your penis will respond.
If you are a virgin and she is not, tell her before making love and she will be able to guide you. This is very sexually stimulating for a woman to be able to guide a man for the first time.
If it is the first time for both of you it may be an awkward fumbling experience. Being a good lover does not happen automatically.
If you have:
- the right partner
you have all that is required to become a great lover.
Sex can be performed in any number of positions. The penis and vagina can be matched in many different ways, and each new position can bring new pleasures to you and your partner.
Men have anxiety about premature ejaculation. If you actually orgasm too soon, take your time, relax, and try again. The second time you should be much more relaxed and ready to take your time.
One of the major anxiety problems with men is the size and shape of their penis.
The average penis is slightly more than 51/2 inches in length when erect. The vagina is capable of stretching to take a large penis, or shape itself to pleasure a small one. Size has very little to do with your ability as a lover.
Another common issue is shape. Some men become concerned because their penis bends downwards, or to the left. Others worry that a downward bend will make sex difficult or painful. It is claimed a downward-bending penis is much easier to perform oral sex upon.